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How to Get Your Ex Back after a Bad Break Up


How to Get Your Ex Back after a Bad Break Up

The relationship had good and bad moments, but now you are stuck with a breakup. And it is bad. Perhaps there were some unattractive words exchanged, or some ‘not-so-nice’ actions. Maybe you insulted each other, or, heaven forbid, you did some acts of retaliation. Either way, you are stuck wondering how to get your ex back after a bad break up.

Oftentimes when we break up with someone that has hurt us deeply, we mistakenly believe that by ‘getting even’ with them for hurting us that our pain will somehow diminish. What really happens, though, is that now we are left feeling ashamed and embarrassed. Our immature emotions and spontaneous reactions to the 'hurt' have caused even more damage.

The first thing you need to do is to take responsibility for your part. Apologize. Accept the shame. Be humble, do not be prideful. Pride will not help you to mend this situation, but remorse will bring you closer to reconciliation.

How to get your ex back after a bad break up involves fixing what you did wrong, changing yourself for the better, acknowledging your faults, and accepting the blame.

Now is not the time to try to argue that you were justified, or to try to deny your role. If you want to know how to get your ex back after a bad break up, you must first clean the slate from the negativity and start bringing in the positive. Your ex needs to know that you have worked on yourself and improved your flaws. That you are sincerely sorry – and even embarrassed – for your behavior, and that you have come to regret the failed relationship.

Remember, trying to defend yourself, denying your role, or pointing the blame at your ex is NOT how to get your ex back after a bad break up. It is exactly how to drive them away even further. You want to see their point, not yours. And you want them to feel like you see their point!

Our report at our home page here discusses the proper way to argue and to win and get your point across. It contains some very crucial information that is important if you want to know how to get your ex back after a bad break up.

Your break up does not have to be the end. It may just be a way to fix what was wrong in the relationship, so that you both can enter it again better and make it more successful than ever before. Learn the secrets to restoring your broken relationship after a bad break up.

 

 
 


 

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